If you want to get closer to your partner and strengthen the bond between you, then there's one sure fire way to achieve this, no messing. Sure, you can go out and buy him a new shirt, or cook him a meal or watch football with him but be truthful ladies, what do you think will keep him thinking about you more? Any of the aforementioned, or you going down on him? Seriously, which do you think is going to win? To achieve better sex, know that your man wants oral sex from you.
So, are you giving your man what he wants? Or are you depriving him? It is a yes or no, black or white question. And only you can answer it. Trust me, if you are pleasing your man in bed - that is, he's getting sex to the level where he's satisfied with how often you 'do it' but also, you have some variety going on - he's going to be a much better/nicer/happier/kinder kind of guy to have around.
Do you know some women (and it's actually not that uncommon) refuse to 'go down' on their men? They range in their attitudes from thinking it's unhygienic, it's dirty and/or just plain not nice. Well, get over yourself and wake up girlfriend. This is the 21st century and we all have needs. The Victorian era is long since past.
And let's face it, if every man could get what he wants sexually, there'd be no need for prostitutes. That's what it comes down to. Men seek out instant gratification with 'working girls' for what they don't get at home. And it's not just perverts and single guys. Fact, there's quite a number of married guys who get their rocks off with girls off the street, simply and purely because their needs are 'not' being met at home. You can protest all you like but it's true.
So, wouldn't you rather satisfy your man at home? How good would you feel if you knew that you were the only person on the planet who could satisfy your man in the way you do?
If you pleasure your man with oral sex, this is going to strengthen your relationship and make everything a whole lot easier for 'both' of you. In pleasing him, he is going to want to reciprocate, both in the bed and out. And it's no bad thing for him to want to please you also in return.
The intimate bond you share between the two of you is something that is so unique; you should build on this. Any couple that is fully satisfied in bed, is going to be a much stronger couple out of it. You'll be happier, more relaxed, more confident and content; he'll be likewise. Because you're meeting the needs of each other, there's no need to go looking elsewhere.
So, to be blunt, get down there and do the business. Service your man. If you know how to perform, that's great. If not, do yourself a favor and learn from the experts. Learn how to be the best your man's ever had and keep him coming back for more.